Judgmental People
Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about judgmental people. People won’t just judge you on appearance. They’ll judge you on lots of things such as money,parents,relationships,grades,friends ect. Personally I won’t judge anyone because I know that’s my biggest fear, which is being judged by others. People have told me that I shouldn’t care, but no matter how many times you tell a person something they may not get it. Most people who will judge you on money are people who are rich and are get whatever they want people. You just gotta think to yourself “Wow….. I may not have as much as them but when I don’t get something I don’t throw a huge fit and when I do get something It means more.” I’m not saying that we all don’t get angry sometimes, but those types of people tend to always get angry. Just think of how stupid they must look when they throw huge fits and think of how much better you are than them. People who go on about your parents are normally people asking for fights, are total jerks, or may have problems at their house. Just think of how low they must’ve sunk because they’re making fun of your parents. Most people who make fun of how many relationships you’ve had are people who are just looking to exclude you. I’ve really had only two girlfriends and it took me 16 years to get a girlfriend. But the main reason I don’t ask girls out is because I don’t want to destroy my friendships with them. There are a few girls who I am friends with but I don’t ask them out because I’m afraid they will say no and it will destroy our friendship. If you meet someone like that just think to yourself “I may not have had many relationships or none at all but I know that when I do get in one it’ll mean so much more than all of theirs.” People who go on about your grades and how many friends you have are normally insecure about their grades and how many friends they have. Even if you have bad grades in highschool that doesn’t mean that you’re stupid. Albert Einstein got horrible grades in school and turned out to be a genius. So for that you gotta think positive. And with people who go on about how many friends you have think to yourself “I may not have as many but they are definitely more loyal”
Just think positive. So far this has helped me. So I hope it helps you guys
